33-year-old man orders $47 beef stew for every meal, flips out when girlfriend attempts to cook it at home and reveals it contains an ingredient that he hates: 'I just wanted to stop spending insane amounts of money'

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    rosey ✔ @thechosenberg Need to try the autism optimized stew
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    AITA for accidentally ruining my autistic boyfriends safe food
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    My boyfriend loves stew, he wants to eat it every day for every meal. His favorite stew is beef tips and vegetables from a local place, but it's really expensive. Like $47 for a big bowl (they don't do small orders for takeout) and he is grossed out by leftovers so more than half of it gets wasted. We've had a couple of arguments about it, he says I don't understand his brain, I say he doesn't understand our budget. recently I looked up some recipes, including doing a dissection of the takeout s
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    sulking around the house, using his whiny voice a lot, and slamming things. His sister also texted me to tell me I'm a selfish a hole for needing to "get back at him" by taking his favorite food away. I literally just wanted to stop spending insane amounts of money on stew, I wasn't trying to hurt him or ruin his life. I'm not autistic, I can't really wrap my head around caring this much about a single ingredient, I genuinely didn't see this reaction coming. We've been together for four years an
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    While people had mixed opinions on the issue, many of them disparaged the boyfriend's behavior as entitled.

    Graffiti_030 @graffitihound1 Replying to @thechosenberg She even made him a homemade version of the stew so they could save money, and he had a breakdown that he found out his safe food had tomato in it, how is she the bad guy??? Why is the family angry at her for trying to help?
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    Crumbl Clairvoyant ... @rachelguz Replying to @thechosenberg 47 bucks for a bowl of stew?
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    TheSeanLavery @CyborgLavery Replying to @thechosenberg Guys, its only $17,155 per year in stew. Stop making a big deal about it. "The total value of $47 per day over 30 years, accounting for an expected annual inflation rate of 3%, is approximately $816,156." oh....
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    Amanda Jean @AJAmmirabilis Replying to @thechosenberg If it's just your bf, you don't have an "our budget"
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    ZERO @ZERO39084961 Replying to @thechosenberg Lesson 1. He can't help what is important to him and what isn't. Lesson 2. U can't help that u don't understand it Lesson 3. Autism is a disability, it will make some aspects of life more difficult. Managing it will sometimes cost money time and effort that u otherwise wouldn't
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    Duo @FarnsWage Replying to @thechosenberg Not a "safe food" but he has no allergy? Sounds pretty safe.
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    Trick Three USARSA Cranky Cold War Vet @Bhess Replying to @thechosenberg The whole we have to cater to him and not that he needs to make an incremental change is interesting. Sometimes we become blind to such things in a family or close relationship because it's just easier to accommodate. That can be fine up to a point but the bf needs to make a change.
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    ★ DIABLA DATURA ★ @DATURADIABLA Replying to @thechosenberg Man-child with enablers as family. Part time job while you work full time? Smashing around the house like a toddler while you're the bread winner? Lord. Do yourself a favour.
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    KD$ign @KnoxEndemic "The autistic guy is coming to order stew for the third time today. Yeah he throws out the leftovers but comes back for every meal. Every day. Charge him $47 for the bowl"
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    posh @wavveforms sorry but spending $400+ on stew is so funny do people know you are allowed to break up with someone
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    Arle @haramcoochie The real issue here is boyfriends (key word here, not autistic) meals Shouldn't be her responsibility at all. Let him pay 50 per meal and see how quickly that lasts.
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    mätilɖä häzɛ, klɛ$$eɖ... @MementoMvddieG Coming from an autistic woman, this guy ah le. I'm sick of is legitimately a society coddling autistic men and allowing them to grow into controlling bastards that use their autism to traumatize and control others. F HIM and F his enabling a family too!
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    @cargyllbowl respectfully im not dating someone with a heavy preference on food, dump his a
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    posh @wavveforms Food $200 Data $150 Rent $800 Stew $3,600 Utility $150 someone who is good at the economy please help me budget this. my family is dying
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    rock licker @shortsrpski as an autistic idk why ppl are so mad at this. yes i get the whole safe food thing but $50 a day on soup is ridiculous. refusing to enable expensive picky eating isnt ablelism i hate leftovers too but if i order a $50 meal im licking the plate clean. or ill order a smaller meal
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    Victoria @teganyssa Hate to bring up gender here but growing up as an autistic daughter with ARFID if i couldn't eat something i was made to go to bed hungry and then this guy gets raised in a way he feels entitled to a $47 soup he doesnt even finish on a regular basis? lol
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    viva verdi! @verderebb Imagine if an autistic woman wanted a new dior shadow palette (same price as this bowl of soup) every single day. "But it is not the same" yeah people have insane levels of entitlement to women's non cumulative labor.
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    Gryffix @Gryffix Autism is no excuse to be a manchild. Insisting on having 3x47 dollars for a meal every day but leftovers aren't good enough is not (just) autism. It's being a too.
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    NemoBane, Esq. @NemoBane This is actually what a mental disability is. If he cannot eat anything but what is putting them in bankruptcy, he needs to go to a cognitive behavioral therapist.
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    constans @constans If you want to have inflexible special snowflake preferences you force everyone else to center their lives around at their expense, you need to simply choose to be single. And other people should realize they don't have to marry those people
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    August |@Glitched Letters He is autistic, yes autism can be this bad. No she's not at fault and neither is he, but his family is a bunch of enabling who have spoiled and pampered his needs so much that he can't respond to situations like this as an adult. She needs to leave him regardless.
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    shadow the hedgehog's... @schizokonoko learning that impoverished childhood privilege is having ur go-to safe food (store brand canned pasta) be several magnitudes cheaper than more well-off autists
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    lily *°*@hyejuzinhas See but if an autistic girl wanted to to spend insane amounts of money on stew...

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